An automatic negative thought is the unbidden, self-critical commentary that shows up before you’ve decided to think anything — “they hated that,” “I always screw this up,” “I’m going to get found out.” Everyone has them; the trouble is that we tend to believe them, because they arrive feeling like facts rather than guesses. The good news is that they respond well to a handful of simple techniques. You can’t stop the thoughts from appearing, but you can stop automatically taking them at their word — and that’s where the relief is.
The term comes from cognitive therapy, and the methods below are drawn from it. None require a therapist; they just take a little practice. Here are six that work.
How to catch and challenge your automatic negative thoughts
These aren’t a sequence to march through in order — pick the two or three that fit how your own mind tends to run.
1. Catch them on paper
The first move is to make the invisible visible. When you feel suddenly low, anxious, or rattled, write down the thought running underneath the feeling. Dr. Daniel Amen, the psychiatrist who coined the term ANTs in the 1990s, frames the basic loop as catch, check, change — and the catching is the part most people skip. Writing the thought down gets it out of your head and onto the page, where it stops feeling like ambient truth and starts looking like a specific claim you can actually examine.
2. Name the pattern behind it
Most automatic negative thoughts run in well-worn grooves: all-or-nothing thinking, mind reading, fortune-telling, jumping to the worst case. Once you’ve caught a thought, ask which pattern it belongs to. Labeling it — “ah, that’s me catastrophizing again” — creates a half-step of distance between you and the thought, and that distance is what lets you treat it as a habit of mind rather than a verdict. Naming the species, in Amen’s terms, is what makes it killable.
3. Put it on trial
This is the classic cognitive move: test the thought against the evidence. What actually supports this belief, and what contradicts it? The ABC model from Albert Ellis’s rational therapy makes the point that it isn’t the event that upsets you but the belief you attach to it — so the belief is fair game. Ask the questions that puncture a shaky thought: Is it definitely true? What would I tell a friend who said this? What’s another way to read the same facts? You’re not arguing yourself into false cheer; you’re checking whether the thought would hold up if it weren’t yours.
4. Defuse it instead of just fighting it
Sometimes a thought won’t argue away — and there’s an approach that doesn’t try to. Cognitive defusion, drawn from acceptance and commitment therapy, changes your relationship to a thought rather than its content: the aim is to look at the thought instead of from it. Prefacing it with “I’m having the thought that I’ll mess this up” instantly reframes it as a mental event, not a fact. Stranger-sounding versions work too — repeating a harsh word out loud until it dissolves into noise, or mentally singing the thought to a silly tune, drains its authority. Research finds defusion helps people approach problems rather than avoid them under stress.
5. Replace it with something balanced, not fake-positive
The goal isn’t to swap “I’ll fail” for “I’ll be amazing” — your brain won’t buy it, and forced positivity tends to bounce straight off. Aim instead for the accurate middle: “this is hard, and I’ve handled hard things before,” “some of this went badly and some of it didn’t.” A balanced replacement thought is far more believable than a sunny one, which is exactly why it sticks. Amen calls the swapped-in version a positive, affirming thought; the key is that it has to be true enough to survive your own scrutiny.
6. Learn when your ANTs swarm
Automatic negative thoughts aren’t random — they spike when you’re tired, hungry, stressed, or idle. Noticing your own conditions is half the battle: if you know your inner critic gets loudest on Sunday nights or after a skipped lunch, you can discount it accordingly and avoid making decisions while it’s shouting. Over time the catch-and-check habit speeds up, until you’re intercepting thoughts that used to run unchallenged for hours. Because how reliably you catch them rests on a few underlying skills, it’s worth seeing where you stand on those.
The skills underneath quieter thinking
Run back through those six and a pattern emerges: each is really an application of noticing your own mind, steadying it, and not letting a passing thought set your mood. Those are learnable work skills.
Building Resilience is the most direct. Understanding and challenging automatic negative thoughts is, almost word for word, one of resilience’s core components — recognizing the event-thought-reaction loop and stepping in to choose a different response. Resilient people aren’t free of negative thoughts; they’ve simply stopped automatically believing them, which is the whole game.
Building Self-Awareness is what makes the catching possible. You can’t intercept a thought you don’t notice, and self-awareness is the practice of observing your own reactions and patterns clearly — including the specific automatic thoughts you reach for under pressure. The better you know your inner critic’s favorite lines and the moments it pipes up, the faster you catch it in the act.
Building Confidence is tangled up in this more than it looks. So much of shaky confidence is a few automatic negative thoughts on a loop — “I’m not good enough,” “they’ll find me out.” Confidence grows as you stop letting those thoughts deliver the verdict and start building evidence by acting. Every time you challenge an ANT and do the thing anyway, the thought loses a little of its grip.
Those three sit inside a set of twelve work skills the framework treats as learnable rather than fixed. The free Work Skills Test measures all twelve, so instead of guessing which one is letting your inner critic run loose, you can see which to work on first.
You might already do some of this — the moment you catch a harsh thought and think, “hang on, is that actually true?” even if you don’t always follow through. That catch is the skill in miniature; it gets quicker with practice. None of this requires becoming a relentlessly upbeat person who never has a dark thought — it just means the dark thoughts stop running the show unopposed. And it pays off more as you take on work with higher stakes, where an unchallenged “I can’t do this” can quietly steer you away from things you’re genuinely capable of.
See which habits keep your thinking steady
You’ve got the techniques; the next step is knowing which underlying skill to strengthen so that catching ANTs becomes second nature. The free Work Skills Test is a short self-assessment of all twelve work skills — including the resilience, self-awareness, and confidence habits that quieter thinking depends on — and it shows you where you stand and what will help most right now.
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